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   Elon Of Asgard (Administrator) February 11, 2013

   Great episode. I need to comment on Jess’ point about men finding the clitoris. I have a bit of a control fetish (BTW, sexual taboo warning, for whatever that’s worth). I like to find any means possible to make a woman lose control. A cock, by itself is almost always not enough, but each woman is different. I’m usually not satisfied completely unless I’ve used a tool that plugs into a wall and I’ve fought off a few unconscious kicks or elbow jerks by about the 7th-8th orgasm, at least. So yeah, I approve of a kick or elbow to show that you’re feeling it.

   Unfortunately, I still go through the typical drama and senseless reasons for break-ups that everyone else goes through. I can’t say that I feel like women I’ve been with really appreciated me much as a whole, if at all. I still love that pleasure control moment that I get them to during sex despite that, because it’s an honest fetish for me. Meanwhile, I’m still amazed when I see a buff friend of mine openly establish that he does not care about a particularly smart woman he’s dating, and while he’s the kind of stupid that isn’t really that stupid, but he somehow prides himself on how stupid he is anyway, all she has to say about it is that “he’s actually a sweet guy underneath.”

   I’m as confused as you are about why the wrong people are being rewarded and appreciated for their behavior in relationships in general. I’m not generalizing women to be this way, I see men do it too. Even when it comes to being someone who has a fetish for being disgraced or brutally punished, there’s a right and a wrong way to go about getting that fetish taken care of. Make reasonable demands and stick with those who respect those expectations. I think that there are some really bizarre patterns in our culture where being nice and genuinely loving toward your partner is considered unreal, as if it’s only supposed to be that way in the movies.

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